In today's society, more than half of all marriages fail for various reasons.The fact is that relationships, whether dating or married, are hard.
A loyal reader of this blog sent me an email with an hilarious tale and word of warning on Italian men, the masters of seduction.
But the fact remains that I’m a short, dark-skinned, fat Black girl, with a natural.
I’m all those things in a culture that not only hates fat, and finds it repulsive, but also in a culture where fat dark-skinned women can only find roles in movies as maids.
Even so, one could argue that these mainstream films reflect the desires of white America, or more to the point, white men, and not Black men, which up to this point is the only group of men I’ve dated.
But with brothers I find, that they, too, have internalized a particular relationship to the body-type most associated with the mammy figure.