Imagine how many messages – per day – an attractive woman gets. I have a friend that told me she receives at least 15 everyday on both of the singles sites she uses. So you have to realize that you’re dealing with some serious competition here.
It’s hard enough to get a woman, but if you’re underestimating the importance of a singles dating first email, you can forget about ever going out on any dates.
This mentality is exactly what prevents some men from meeting anyone online. Writing a first email to a woman online is important because it’s the main tool used to get a foot in the door, so to speak. Even if you send out hundreds of emails, you’ll probably only get a few responses.
Unfortunately, a few responses won’t be good enough to get a date. Even the most unappealing women online have desperate guys after them.
You’re all ready to send this bad-boy out, but just “in case”, you read it one more time, nice… After all, you absolutely CAN’T screw this up because…. Then you come to your senses and realize that it’s only been a few hours since you sent that email out — and not everyone’s online, ALL the time. So, you log out and then log back in to make sure you’re checking the right account and changes! You get a little discouraged and start to wonder if that email was really as good as you thought it was…
well, this girl is HOT and you really want to meet her! So, you wait a little longer and check your email again and still… you even start to doubt yourself and wonder if something is wrong with your profile.
Each email you send should have the following components… If the introduction doesn’t hook her, she’ll click “Back” instantly.
For example, an online retailer could connect hip trends to the older generation.
A subject line like, “Ten Trendy Styles Even Your Grandmother Thinks Are On Fleek,” could get a smile from your readers and encourage customers of all generations to open your email. Think of movies that relate to your business, or famous quotes that you could incorporate into your subject line.
So you “pull the trigger” and hit “send” and then off you go to run a few errands. It’s time to go and check your inbox and see that reply. You painfully discover, as you’re frantically checking your inbox, that she has still NOT responded to the world’s BEST email!!
You know without a doubt that she’ll reply immediately and you CAN’T WAIT to see her response. You give it a few more days, and now, you’re not just discouraged, you’re outright pissed off! So, the thought of sending her an ANGRY message comes creeping into your head.