If he was that un-happy he would have left a while ago and then went after someone else. If you are a mistress, and you are seeing a married guy who is saying he is unhappy (they all say they are unhappy - if they were happy, why would they need a mistress..? If you are asking this you are probably knee deep in an affair with a man who wants his cake and eats it too.As a reasonable, logical person, you might look at how he’s acting and assume that he must want a divorce — otherwise, why would he treat his loved one so badly? If this is how he treats his wife, do you really think he’s going to treat you better?!50% of marriages break up after the discovery of infidelity.Source If therapists and drinking buddies got a dime every time they heard the words “he said he wants a divorce,” they’d be swimming in money.But married men who cheat usually don’t want to leave their wives.guys tell the mistress the "i'll divorce my wife soon" story to keep the relationship with the mistress going if that's what the mistress wants to hear. because he can get a mistress and tell her stories instead of getting a divorce.until the marriage becomes very, very bad (in his eyes) to the point where the pain of divorce looks better than the pain of staying married with a mistress on the side...he buck up the courage to get a divorce. I keep hearing men say, they love their kids and want to keep the kids happy.
This kid is super brilliant but has has major issues because his parents don't get along.He might just leave you in the same circumstances as he left his ex-wife. While divorce statistics among first-time marriages are relatively high, the divorce rate dramatically spikes for couples in their second or third marriage. Who they’re cheating with usually has little to do with it.Even as the mistress, you know you’re not the only one. As a result, mistresses are often devastated when a married man leaves his wife — but ends up needing “me time” in the wake of a divorce.For example, in this question, you can hear the young single adult woman advocating for the man who is not happy in his marriage.You could also hear such justification points as the man has decided to divorce his wife.a.k.a He'll NEVER stay that into you There are no positive reasons for dating a married man.