So any busty blondes reading this can contact me through the Website. After the initial experimental stage where he dates a lot of people, he looks for a woman to fill certain roles, like wife and mother. At 39, Paul, a computer consultant, is no longer looking to date, but to mate.
But I also want a woman who's sensitive because, hey, I got feelings." 30: STABILITY—AND SANITY Jim, a comic, recalls, "When I was seven I wanted a girl who could make a good sand castle. "I want someone who looks like a good baby-maker, not an anorexic who's afraid to put a cookie in her mouth." 40: COMPANIONSHIP Men in this age range still think a roll in the hay is nice, but now they're more eager for substance. If you're up for the job, the 40s man may be yours for the taking.
Many of them are burnt out, making tons of money and lonely as hell because they have no one to share their success. Listen to 41-year-old Stuart, a computer systems VP. Those are the questions I ask myself about the women I meet." The aphrodisiac for Stuart, as for many over-40 men, is compatibility.
"Now that I'm in my wise forties, I'm more interested in the character of the person than the package it comes in. If there isn't a certain comfort level with a woman at this stage of a man's life, a relationship can be very frustrating.
Let’s examine some of the common types: The Total Package is smart—he went to a top college.
The Total Package has a hell of a career going, but don’t you for a second suggest that The Total Package would be a workaholic—The Total Package is a family man. Selector .selector_input_interaction .selector_input. Selector .selector_input_interaction .selector_spinner. Find me a group of 30-year-old men and I’ll pick out one overgrown frat dude living with roommates, another guy who just dropped his two kids off at school, a few who are well into their careers and a couple soul-searchers looking for work.In his book, “Dataclysm,” he points out that who we want to be and who we really are can be two very different things.Data reveals truths that we might not want to say out loud.According to a recent survey of adult sexual behavior, men over the age of 40 were two to three times more likely to report a lack of sexual interest compared to men under the age of 30.