I do not intend to defend a certain set of rules, or refute any.Neither will I pretend like I have the best advice, since I am not even married. Ever been around a girl who can't do anything but put down her boyfriend?You may be thinking, Not a good dating rule to live by, especially when it comes to values, moral standards and personal beliefs. It's good to keep in mind that a promise breaker can quickly become a heartbreaker, too. So here goes: Your quality and purpose of life is not determined by whether or not you date or get married.Always pursue God and health (spiritual, emotional, and physical) and you will be fine.Married people have the best dating advice since they have already done it!My goal is to simply pass on, from one teen to another, some thoughts I have developed from my observations, personal experience, and advice from others.
Teenagers still flirt, date, and fall in love - but with a whole new set of rules.I pray that this list will help you to address the things our young people wrestle with the most. What questions have you seen recurring as you work with young adults?Disclaimer: By necessity, not all of the answers provided are complete and exhaustive. A fresh and accurate approach to questions such as: “Is the unborn human less than human? How can you still be a friend to someone you know that has a “reputation”, while keeping your reputation pure and blameless? From friendships to dating, these are the years that Christian teens start building ties outside of the family.While these relationships are an exciting time for Christian teens, they also come with their own issues and hazards.While you can't predict the future, you can make choices that will help guide you to relationships that are both exciting and honoring to God. As you think through potential dates, ask yourself these questions: 1. "Don't judge a book by its cover." That's how the old saying goes. (For instance: You value good grades and plan to attend college; your potential date regularly cuts classes and has no plans for life after graduation.) Do they have decent standards when it comes to the movies and TV shows they watch?